I am adding to my post above. I know it takes some time to answer all the request for help on the forum and it is getting late and I have to get up early so I will check in tomorrow. Thanks in advance
Other info about the laptop problem. When I went to control panel earlier, I clicked on several of the programs : Internet Options, Windows Firewall, System, Security system, and got this info box:
APPLICATION FAILED TO INITIALIZE PROPERLY (0xc0000142)
Now here at 11:40 something, I tried again on the control panel and not even the error message will come up, the hour glass comes up briefly then disappears. Seems to be getting worse just sitting, I'm afraid to shut it down, don't know what to do, hate to leave it on all night.