mailwasher free has one great feature !!!
after the 4 th time of asking someone to BCC and don't just forward to all, well i use mailwasher's "bounce" feature
it will send the e-mail back , BUT it looks like it was returend as no address

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plan B
most isp's will allow you more than one e-mail address
use one to give out to people
then if they can be trusted you give them your GOOD ONE

NOTE:
i use a program called "Kshowmail" on linux, but there are several free mail preview,announce,notify programs
you set your e-mail program to check mail on startup and disable the "check every XXX min" feature
then you set up the mail notify program to "check mail every XX min"
so now when mail comes in you can sort it out, keep, "delete from server", or usually "preview in text"
so you are saftly opening the mail to see if any crap is on it

after you have gone through the mail you can have it start the e-mail program and you will be reading only good safe mail !!!
(note again: mailwasher has the preview feature and start e-mail feature)
(note again) if you are on a dialup and size does matter, they show you the size of the e-mail so people that send me a 1 meg mail with the latest pics of their grand kids i can sel the bounce feature

and now you know how i do my mail the easy way
